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“Instill the love of you into all the world, for a good character is what is remembered”  Merikare

The beauty in networking is proof that you have the power to make a difference and your powers are based on whom you know rather than what you know. There is a synergistic power in numbers that is huge and exponentially unaccountable. Connecting to the human web or the degrees of separation has the ability to multiply, and multiply quickly. For example, on Tuesday I conducted an experiment by launching a campaign, asking my friends to please, pre-order ‘The Seminar’ book one week before the public release date, which is June 1, 2012. Seemingly, they did and passed the word on. Two days later the book went from 885,773rd place to 16,363rd place, an increase of 869,410 positions, out of over 8,000,000 books, all books, sold on amazon. It reached best seller status, which is when it ranks within the top 100 books sold in a particular category. In the Business Enterprise category, it moved all the way up to #32. Of course it will now fluctuate in position until it is released and by then people will give referrals, good and/or bad, which is again capable of rocking the boat with sudden position movement.

The main lesson learned from the experiment that I want to share with you is that your old friends, school chums, family, neighbors, colleagues, business prospects, and customers, would be excited for you to ask them for their assistance or help, particularly, if periodically, you touch bases with them and offer your assistance and/or help. Be sure to always thank them and that is my next step.

The social media is also a great tool for you to use sending those in your databases, information related to their fields of business and/or interests. The personal touch is invaluable. Attention is love and every one of us wants to be loved. This is not a form of manipulation, it is simply doing unto others as you would want them to do unto you. Give and Take, is another subject in the ‘Passageways to Riches’TM and we can discuss that another time. This blog is about networking and more of this information can be found in ‘The Seminar’. Incidentally, you can grab a peek inside of the book if you search on Seminar by Reuven Bryer.

Enjoy, and I’ll see you on the ‘Passageways to Riches’TM


“He who goes with the wise becomes wiser but by association with fools one becomes worse”  King Solomon, Proverbs13:20

There was seemingly a sales frenzy today when ‘The Seminar’ book became a bestseller on in the Business Enterprise category. The last time I checked it was rated 32nd, passing several of my mentors, Donald Trump and Robert Kiyosaki. I noticed a quote from another one of my many mentors, Robert Shemin, quoting yet another mentor, Confucius, “It does not matter how slowly you go so long as you do not stop.” 
I acknowledge that I have been blessed with many mentors in ‘The Seminar’. There were just far too many to acknowledge. I have actually grown close to many as well.
I hope to someday write a book that can fill with their names. One that I do mention in ‘The Seminar’, is my Father, of blessed memory, Max Bryer.  Being very philosophically minded, he used to tell me, “It is better to have one friend than to have ten enemies.” That may sound like a no-brainer but it has a deeper meaning. One true friend is priceless and somehow I have been blessed with  several in my lifetime.
The people I have met and got to work with during the eight years of writing ‘The Seminar’, have brought me joy beyond logic and understanding, beauty beyond belief. The value that they have added to this book, is in reality, priceless. All I can think of writing now, at the end of this historical day in my life, is to say from the bottom of my heart, Thank All of You.
I will see you on the ‘Passageways to Riches’, sincerely, Reuven Bryer